Today’s world lacks humanity, people use each other for their benefits and many girls’ emotions are used for the sake of sex. If you are in a relationship that includes physical interaction a lot you must ensure that you are not being used for sex. Below are some red flags you should notice.
· Evaluate whether you often spend time home
Observe how you spend time together, do you spend more time in bed or do you go to restaurants or movies on a date. If your partner wants to spend more time at home having sex probably he is interested in your body than you. You must consider it as a sign. Avoid staying at home instead,take your partner outside on dates at public places. If your partner’s behaviour changes then you’ll know the truth.
· Observe your conversations
Closely observe your conversations; do all of your conversations end up on sex or any physical thing? If your boyfriend is using you for sex he won’t be interested in other topics except for sex. There won’t be any real communication in your relationship. It would be either complimenting you for your looks, body or about sex. Consider this as a sign. Someone who truly loves you wants sex to be the last thing in a relationship.
· Make sure your needs are taken care of during sex
If your partner cares only about their satisfaction and is not concerned about your pleasure then they are definitely using you for sex. In a relationship, both the partners should be equal in every aspect and even in sex. Make sure that your partner takes care of your needs too. If not you must let go of him before it’s too late.
· Deny for sex and observe their reaction
To check your partner deny for sex and observe their reaction. If they get frustrated and angry on you then he is mostly with you for sex. If your partner understands and says it’s ok still you can be used for sex so don’t give up, deny more often and see if your relationship works. If it does, good for you and if it doesn’t, still good for you.
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