Everybody wants to be seen, heard, and understood. Understanding allows growing love and love gets better when people understand themselves and understand their partners. If you love someone and don’t understand them, you will have more conflicts And once conflicts rule, you grow apart. The more individuals quarrel and fight in a relationship, the less love, and fascination they feel for one another.
One of the painful reality, however, is that love is just not enough sometimes. You must work every day at better understanding the people whom you love and care for. The willingness to understand is very important in a relationship, willing to understand your partner’s every decision or insecurity. It is not always easy, but healthy love is strengthened by the willingness to understand each other and to trust each other. Love without understanding is like sugar without sweetness. For a strong relationship, it is required to understand each other better and to care more.
Being understood is often confused with being loved, the two are not the same but they are surely related to each other. Knowing and understanding and loving someone takes time and effort, if you want a better relationship try to be calm. You don’t need to understand people to love them, but you need to understand them to increase your bonding and strengthen your relationship.
Relationships can be complicated. To say that relationships are difficult is an understatement and hard to accept. Understanding the emotions of your partner is not always simple, but is not impossible. Emotions are the center of a perfect relationship.
For a healthy and strong relationship, all you need is not only just love but also other things like understanding, trust, commitment, loyalty, and respect.