Sex is an activity performed by humans to experience and express their sexuality. The sexual acts range from masturbation (done alone) to sexual intercourse, oral sex, (done with other humans), etc. The result is usually sexual arousal which in turn makes a person happy. Good intercourse is a part of happiness and well-being. Having sex often results in a happier life and partners usually feel more connected to each other.
Sex with your partner is one of the best ways to lead a happy life. But it is rarely discussed in theories since it’s always considered taboo. Happiness is the greatest achievement that anybody can have, and all though there are many reasons for it, sex and happiness are intimately related to each other.
Here are few tips for happier sex life-
- If you don’t make it, don’t fake it
Faking an orgasm might feel easier sometimes than actually discussing with your partner why it didn’t work out and hurt their feelings. This might hinder both your intimacy and your ability to improve sexual encounters with your partner. Being honest is the key to it, talk to your partner about it which in turn can be addressed and meet by each other the next time.
- Exploration of yourself
Masturbation is a good way of exploring yourself, to know what you like and dislike in sex and what you are comfortable with. Masturbating together has also being found to be arousing and beneficial so as to know about each other’s bodies.
- Foreplay & Afterplay are important
We see in movies how the couple tends to get ready for sex with nothing more than a hurried passionate moment followed by kissing and so on. In real life, things are pretty obvious and hence there are unsatisfied sexual experiences. Therefore, foreplay necessarily plays an important role. Let your partner know about your arouse points on your body and provide plenty of it before moving to the next steps. Afterplay is as important as foreplay. The time you spend with your partner after having sex is important. Talk to them, cuddle with them, tell them what you liked the most and how important they are to you.
- Experiment
There are several types of things that can be experienced in sex, provided that both of you are comfortable. These can include the use of toys and erotica to bondage sex, etc. Anyways, the key to happy sex life is definitely not edgy or kinky sex. You can try to change your locations and the type of dressing for sex as well.
It can include the use of new positions and types of sex, such as oral sex, anal sex, and mutual masturbation. New ways can be experimented to give both pleasures and can be a wonderful experiment in the couple’s closeness. You should sit and discuss the new things first and then try them.
