It’s like getting a new toy with dozens of hidden chambers to explore when you fall in love. It’s thrilling, and it’s something you genuinely care about. It’s a different scenario to stay in love. “‘Til death do us part” can seem like a long time to keep the flame alive after a while.

Here are few tips to revive the flame if you have lost it in your relationship.

1. Pay attention to the emotional connection.

Part of the trouble with rekindling the passion in a relationship is that we haven’t fully grasped the concept of passion, to begin with. The majority of us try to revive the passion in our relationships on the incorrect level—on the surface.

But there’s a reason we have the intuitive need to refer to sex as “making love”: passion entails more than just erotic play.

2. Pay attention to the emotional music that is already playing.

This entails slowing down and paying attention to your partner’s cues.

To play with someone, we need a sense of security so that we can let go and be fully immersed at the moment. It’s difficult to keep an eye on your back while still being engrossed in a wonderful sensation.

A secure emotional connection also gives us the freedom to express our sexual demands and wishes to our partners. What’s the end result? Feeling wanted, having our wishes granted, and much greater passion!

3. Communicating with one another. Quite a bit.

Naturally, it’s all too easy to lose sight of the value of being completely honest with our relationships, especially over time. It’s even easier to overlook the fact that there’s a strong link between honesty and intense sex.

The good news is that we can remind ourselves of this reality anytime we’re ready to make the required modifications to rekindle our enthusiasm in our relationships. By reprioritizing open and honest communication, we can practically choose to fall in passionate love again and again.

Perhaps this is why people who report the most intense sex are long-term lovers rather than one-night stand devotees.

4. Making efforts and working together.

There’s no denying that passion requires effort. And, perhaps strangely, acknowledging the value of “play” necessitates a significant amount of effort. However, the notion of “work” in this context does not imply that it is unpleasant or routine.

Allowing yourself to get fully immersed and tuned into an activity is what it means. It takes effort to pay attention to your wants, as well as the requirements of your beloved, and to communicate them. And this practice is absolutely necessary for having a passionate sex life.

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