10 questions you must ask on a first date

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· Who are the special people in your life?

You should ask this question to know more about their family members and friends they hang out with. This will help you judge the person quite well.

· What’s the best present you’ve ever gifted or received?

Asking this question will let you know what the person values in life. Does he value the giver or the gift? Is an important thing you’ll find out. You will find the overall nature of your date.

· What’s the best advice anyone ever gave you?

If your date can answer this question then you can say that he/she is a good listener. You should further ask them how they used the advice in their daily life.

· How a normal day looks like to you?

Knowing how their typical day is will help you know about their daily activities and understand whether they match up to yours and helps you decide whether you should go to the next step with this person.

· What is your recreational activity?

Every human has a recreational activity or a hobby, when you have nothing left to talk about you can pop this question in the conversation.

· Does someone think they are in a relationship right now with you?

This is a very important question you must ask but remember to be casual while asking this question and you can also make use of humour. After you ask this question, observe their answer keenly and read between the lines of their answer. Sometimes people go on a date with another person while still dating someone else.

· What makes you happy?

This is a simple question, yet difficult to answer. People find happiness in different things or experiences. So check what your date finds happiness in. If he/ she finds happiness in taking drugs or smoking and you don’t like it, you might want to leave.

· What are the qualities you are looking for in your partner?

Answer to this question will help you know if you fit in the expectations of your date and if you don’t you can walk away without getting hurt.

· What is the best movie you’ve ever watched or the fascinating book you’ve read?

Again, if you have nothing to talk about you can ask these questions to keep the conversation going and can also fond out about each other taste in movies and books.

· Tell me about some obscure things you are really obsessed with.

Every person has this hidden obsession over something. Some people love buying some weird useless stuff, some love to listen to a particular song on a loop, etc. You might ask this question to your date just to know them better.