What qualifies you as “that” girl, and who set the criteria for “that” girl in the first place? Okay, we’re looking forward to getting started on this one with you ladies! You might wonder why. Because this is essentially the focus of our post, which covers the fundamentals.
Define Her
This is the most crucial stage. With all we’re exposed to via social media, it’s sometimes tough to be completely honest with ourselves about what we want. Because this entire process is centred purely on YOU, the individual, it will be critical that you be able to block out the influences in your environment and truly determine who you want to be.
Think Like Her
What do you believe this person’s ideas are? It might be necessary to conduct some additional investigation to think like her. Because you aren’t this person yet, you may not know off the top of your head. If you’ve properly identified her in step 1, you’ll know what crucial words to look for.
Dress Like Her
Many people may disagree with this or believe it is unimportant, but as a lady who has been performing since the age of three, I can tell you that practice makes perfect. This will help you get into character. You may be better able to attain the aforementioned, think like her, once you’re in character.
Move Like Her
And I don’t mean dancing or walking with your hips swayed, though the latter may convey confidence. What would she do in the situation? You’ve already made up your mind about her feelings. What does she do as a result of such thoughts? That should be done. Now try to perform it realistically. You don’t want to go to a car dealership and drive away in a Ferrari if you aren’t currently in one.
Show Up As Her
PERIOD! You’re the one who made her. Now, be her daily. People overlook the fact that whether individuals they observe “becoming that girl” are putting forth effort or doing so naturally, they are doing so. It’s because of the action verb. The only difference between you and who you want to be, depending on your definition of “THAT” girl, is the action. This may be easier said than done because “showing up as her” may need a little (or a lot) more time, patience, and/or energy than you have on any given day.
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