Have a clear picture in your mind of what you want.
Online dating is most effective when you know exactly what you’re looking for.
Make a specific aim for what you wish to accomplish. It could even be good to sit down and write a brief description of the type of relationship you want and who the best person to have it with ahead of time. When examining people’s profiles and determining whether to swipe right (connect) or left (pass), you’ll be able to be more thoughtful. Create a profile that reflects your goals.
Give your profile some idea! A funny and short profile can be ideal if you’re just looking for laughter. Write a more meaningful and longer profile that displays who you are, what you enjoy doing and thinking about, and the type of person you want to allow into your life if you’re seeking a deeper connection with someone.
Include clear images of your face, preferably with you smiling.
On your dating profile, it’s a good idea to have a selection of images of yourself. Make sure your face is visible in the first photo, and don’t make it a group photograph where it’s unclear who is you. If at all feasible, include some of your personality in the images, such as a shot of you laughing, a shot of you outside if you enjoy being outside, or a shot of you in your PJs sipping decaf coffee if that’s your dream Friday night.
Create a captivating first paragraph.
Don’t just say “Hi” or “Hey, what’s up?” the first time you message someone. Make it interesting! Show that you’ve read their profile by commenting on anything they’ve said or a specific photo they’ve uploaded, or better yet, by asking a question based on it. You might also inquire about shared collective experiences, such as an impending holiday, the pandemic’s unpredictability, or something special to your city.
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