1. DO A REASONABLE CONTROL CHECK.

Before you proceed any further, you need to think about what’s going on logically. Is it conceivable that you’re misreading the situation or expecting too much from your lover, or is he taking you for granted on purpose? Is it possible to modify these minor habits with some old-fashioned dialogue and a little effort? If you don’t think he’ll respond or if you’ve previously done that and failed, it’s time to go on to step two.

2. EVALUATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP AGAIN.

It’s time to reconsider your relationship if he starts to distance himself from you and doesn’t treat you with the love, respect, and concern you need. It’s foolish to sit around and fret about what’s going through his head. Instead, take command of the situation and determine whether or not this is someone you truly desire in your life. If your boyfriend is too preoccupied with other things to make you a priority in his life, it may be time for you to start looking for other potential men who are prepared to put in the effort to keep you happy.

3. TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.

Your lover may have been acting suspiciously recently because you have too much free time on your hands. Boredom can make you crazy because it allows you to overthink every facet of your relationship. So you don’t notice how much of a jerk he is, keep yourself engaged with hobbies and social activities. You may discover that things improve after you move your focus away from him and onto things that bring you joy.

4. IGNORE WHEN EVERYTHING ELSE FAILS.

Some people call it “gaming,” whereas I call it “karma.” If your partner’s schedule suddenly becomes too hectic for you to handle, press the decline button every time he calls. “WTF?” he’ll almost certainly text you, he’ll almost surely text you. Make a conscious effort to ignore that message as well. It’s not always easy to express your unhappiness by nagging or having a sit-down conversation with him. Don’t pick up the phone for a bit since guys respond better to action. He’ll know something’s up if you send him an SMS in the middle of the night with just one-word responses. Perhaps then, when you tell him how unhappy you are, he will truly listen to you.

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