4: What are the top three things on my to-do list?
Before entering a relationship, ask yourself three questions about your priorities. It’s just as vital to know what you don’t want as it is to know what you do, and it’s quite acceptable to set boundaries.
What would go after “I would never date a person who…” in this sentence?
What is the top priority on your to-do list?
What are the things you will not compromise on, regardless of how appealing the individual is to you?
According to Shetty, setting priorities based on the three questions above will help you be more intentional in your relationships.
5: When it comes to someone with whom I am in a relationship, what are my top three preferences?
There are aspects of a person that we are drawn to, and that is fine. They may not be as important as the above-mentioned priorities, but having a sense of preference aids in making deliberate judgments when selecting the proper person.
6: What are the other person’s three main needs, and can I address them?
Be open and honest about what the other person requires of you and whether or not you can fulfil that demand. They will not feel loved and you will be drained if you are unable to meet their needs in the manner in which they expect to be addressed. Do they require assistance in managing their lives? Is that something you’re capable of? Are you capable of providing the emotional support they require? Before going into a relationship, it’s critical to assess a person’s needs and expectations. This can help avoid disappointing expectations and broken feelings.
Love is a lovely thing. Being in a loving relationship with the right person can be a life-changing experience. The six things to focus on before falling in love, as outlined by Jay Shetty, can help set the tone for any relationship’s success.
Also Read: Jay Shetty’s Advice On How To Avoid Falling In Love Too Quickly: (Part 1)
